Hi,
I don’t usually write posts like this, but I just wanted to share something that’s been on my mind lately. I’m 19 years old and still living at home with my family. Because our house is small, I share a room with my younger brother, who is 17.
We’ve shared a room for a long time. When we were kids, it was fine. We used to fight sometimes but also had fun. But now that we’re older, it’s starting to feel weird. I’m a young woman and he’s growing up too, and we both need some space. It’s not that anything bad has happened it just feels uncomfortable sometimes. Like when I want to change clothes, or when I just want some quiet time alone.
I try to give him his space, and he tries too. But it’s hard. We don’t have another room, and I know my parents are doing their best. They can’t just make a new room appear. So I’m stuck trying to figure out how to deal with it.
I’ve been thinking about small things I can do to make it better. Like using the bathroom to change, or asking him to turn around for a minute when I need privacy. I also try to spend time in the living room or outside when I need a break.
But honestly, I still feel a little lost. I don’t want to make things awkward between us. I care about my brother and I know it’s not his fault. But I also feel like I’m too old to be in this situation.
I guess I’m just writing this to say if you’re going through the same thing, you’re not alone. It’s okay to feel weird about it. It doesn’t mean you’re being dramatic. It just means you’re growing up and starting to value your own space and comfort. That’s normal.
If anyone has been in a similar situation and has any advice, I’d love to hear it.
